Sunday, July 6, 2014

Finding Love without pain

Finding Love without pain..

"Don't ask the world of someone if you haven't given them the world yourself. LIVE, LOVE,GIVE by example. The people that want to be in your life and desire your love will reciprocate the gesture." ~S.Inezz

I find that I struggle with allowing myself to just let go and feel. It's a very fine line that my emotions walk between loving someone and loving them so much that it hurts. I have no problem giving my love most of the time I give with no expectations of anything in return. Simply because the act of giving brings me joy.  But lately I've struggled with other feelings that I have to overcome and learn to dismiss. These are feelings of neglect, worry, fear, and distrust. All of these add up to pain. Pain from the fear that the love is not returned, worry that obstacles may arise, dis-trust that they will not be as Loyal to me as I have been for them, and an overwhelming fear of being neglected after I've given everything and allowed myself to be vulnerable to them.


How do I overcome? It is true that I have insurmountable faith in God. I trust him. And you'd think That trust would be enough, but my relationships here on earth that bring out these feelings are with another person. A person born of free will That is  given the choice every day to do what's right or what’s  wrong.


Answer: My only true chance to ensure none of these negative experiences are projected onto me is to love someone that had the same unfailing Faith in our creator, and in their own spirituality, because this person will possess the spiritual and moral integrity to love without inflicting pain.


Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. 1 Cor 13 4:8

2 comments:

  1. Beautifully said, beautifully written.

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    1. Thank you Ashley for your valuable input. Love you!

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